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Posted at December 31, 1969, 6:00 pm: Xui Wan you aren't the wrong person at all, I appreciate your input Quote: Originally Posted by Xui Wan If it is a relationship you want, and I think what I am hearing or seeing is that it is! I would strongly urge you to get this girl help! If you truely think you love her, and even if you are unsure I find it important and I cannot stress this enough I find it VERY IMPORTANT that you help her find help ......well if my objective in helping her is to start a relationship then that's not cool, but if it's out of care for her then maybe, but if I find her help then i'm kind of partnering with her in it aren't i? In the very same conversation where I suggest she get help won't she just say i'd rather just talk to people I'm close to (i.e. me). Plus cause i'm involved she'll come to me and tell me all about the sessions.....ahhh it's tricky! Quote: Originally Posted by Xui Wan If she started to come out of depression, saying that she is infact depressed, she may find that she loves you for you and maybe just maybe she will find that she doesn't and vice versa.... but you won't know unless she makes active changes for herself. But then I will be that knight in shining armour you know......not somebody she genuinely cares for but rather somebody who helped her when nobody else would. Perhaps I could get somebody else to help her, maybe a friend of mine (girl) and her could become friends and then i'll ask her to help her Quote: Originally Posted by Xui Wan Remember "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink" help her find the tools to heal herself and if she takes them great and if she doesn't then I am sure you know what should be done. If not "Sometimes the best medicine is to walk away" We choose certain people we need to learn lessons from, or people we need to teach lessons to. We are all attracted to like minded individuals. If at anytime you feel like running away from something or someone that is the most important time to be there, to find out why it hurts or bothers you so um I got a bit lost here. You're saying sometimes we need to just walk away? But also stay cause i could learn something? Quote: Originally Posted by Xui Wan There are counsellors who deal with many issues, hers included! Lastly having a counsellor is not a sign of weakness!! it is a sign of tremendous strenth! and self love! I totally agree. Well yeah I study psychology and have had lots of friends who have gone for professional help when they really needed it and have seen the practical value of it. I just hope she can see it that way when i talk to her.......if i am in fact the one to find her help........or if my friend is..... Original of the message was taken from http://www.movieforums.com/community/ Previous Post: Dearest SpoOkY Joel: I am probably the wrong person to be commenting,... Next Post: Quote: Originally Posted by SamsoniteDelilah ... |