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Posted at October 27, 2013, 8:26 am:

Sorry but this is going to be long...

My mother has a boyfriend of almost 20years, hes been living with us for at least 14 of those years. He has major financial issues so mom decided to help him out by co-signing some of those major debts. Thats all I knew about him up to 10 years ago. He was into substance abuse, hes totally paranoid and adding fuel to the fire, hes very insecure. Its been a total nighmare lasting more then 10 years now with him in the house and we've kicked him out 2x before. He has accused my mother of having affairs left and right including with a gay guy (ya go figure!?!?). He has problems sleeping and intentionally keeps us all up. He lies almost about everything so often that he even believes in his is BS!

OK, I'll stop here and tell you people now that kicking him out isn't as easy as it sounds. B/C now now only are those debts still unpaid for, there are a lot of new ones under both their names. We know now that he isn't responsible enough to pay them off on time so that leaves it to the bank bugging my mother and if he leaves, they're considered common-law now so he technically can claim half the house.

Hes lived here rent free and free of any responsibility to the house (basically a leech). I'm usually very patient and have total control over my emotions, espeically my darker side but over the past few years and especially for past week, I've totally lost myself and very nearly knocked the living lights out of him and nobody, not even his own kids (now full adults with kids of their own) were suprised. They fully support my mother. What sparked this, he assaulted and threatened my mother and the only thing that held me back was my mother...don't ask me why!

I really don't know what to do b/c the reprocautions of my mother getting involved with this guy is going to haunt us all the way to the grave.

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