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Posted at September 27, 2014, 7:20 am: Hey mofo people! I've been kind of missing for a few months or so........well I have no idea how long really and yeah my life has been in a bit of blender (and not the fruity yummy kind). I need some advice about a tricky situation and as these kinds of things always seem to go it involves a member of the opposite sex (in case u don't know me I'm a guy ). Basically I've been friends with her for about 2 years but she deferred her uni course this semester to work. So I started inviting her to stuff with my mates and we've been getting quite close. I actually started believing that I might be in love........cause yea I've been a bit silly in relationship decisions and I've been waiting for the right person and for some reasons yet for me to realise she seemed perfect. So yep I thought she was 'the one' and I reckon she had some idea about what I was thinking, seeing as I kept taking the time to talk to her about her worries, spend most of my time around her when we go out and always give her massive hugs whenever I see her. The troubling part of this story is that over time I've realised she's a little.........well.......unstable. There's some hints of depression and I know certain friends of hers have really hurt her. I know that if we went out there could be some degree of me being the knight in shining armour (i've had a bit of experience in this and it always ends up bad, especially with a lot of her friends not around I could be the only one there for her. This could make her dependent on me......which isn't right). I just need to look at my mum and I see a whole person, who is complete in and of herself and complements my dad in every way. I know this sounds a bit crazy but even though I really really like her I want to back off.........at least I think I do, but I don't know how . I know I've been sending the wrong signals lately and just can't stop cause that's how I relate to her. What can I do to stop the spiral? (for want of a better word). Should I spend less time with her? Not call her unless it's something specific? Should I keep trying to talk her out of going away to France for 6 months? I almost need to work out how to just be friends again. Can anyone help me? Joel *woot 1000th post! Original of the message was taken from http://www.movieforums.com/community/ Replies:Joel.Thanks Annie, but am still unsure how to back off. Quote: Originally Posted by SpoOkY Thanks Ann... Dearest SpoOkY Joel: I am probably the wrong person to be commenting,... Xui Wan you aren't the wrong person at all, I appreciate your input ... Quote: Originally Posted by SamsoniteDelilah ... Sounds good, J, and yeah your lingo makes perfect sense and it sounds ... Stop looking at your motives and know in your heart that you are doing... Quote: Originally Posted by SpoOkY if I find... Quote: Originally Posted by Xui Wan If its ... Awesome post Sammy! Quote: Originally Posted b... Hmm this ones a buit harder, i can see youre there for her and maybe t... Other Topics of Movie Forums:Same character, different actorIMDB' Top 15 of Last 15 Hidden (Caché) The Day the Earth Stood Still (REMAKE) The main site.... Which film or filmmaker piqued your interest? What Character Best Describes the Above MoFo? Jim Carrey The Fog made me cry with anger What was the first movie you ever remember watching Great Performances in Below Average Movies Best film score ever? Xfire - PC gaming IM tracker Clerks II Vampire Movies Oh The Nostalgia, MoFo Gone Bye! Darth loses the plot Christopher Reeve Superman Collection November 28th - Complete Details Splinter Cell. Full Details for Shock Treatment : Special Edition Favourite misquotes of all time? Post 2 Facts and One Lie Game The Fast and the Furious: Tokyo Drift - Weekend Prediction Video Game Hint/Tip Thread Modern Day Vampires Oscar's Best Picture (2006) RIP Richard Pryor Tom Yum Goong trailer (starring Tony Ja) What it takes Long Awaited List! Diane, I hold in my hand a purple monkey "The cowards and liars who have shamelessly attacked my character" War Of the Ancient Conquerors!! 'We miss sexy stud Blibb" thread Who is the most overrated director? "Captain, there be whales here"... The Departed |