Need you guys' help again-still reeling from heart break

Topic: Need you guys' help again-still reeling from heart break

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Posted at July 30, 2007, 3:24 pm:

Now, before I start I know that I've started at least three threads about the same issue.

But the thing is, I know i should move on and I am but I need you guys to understand that I like to understand things before I put them away.

so please I need you to really try and help me figure this one out and give me the most likely answer.

Haven't spoken to my ex in 3 weeks. The last conversation we had ended with her saying this: "i think you and i will be together in the future but for now i just want to date and stuff and not have a serious boyfriend. Anyways i have to run i dont know when i am going to call you but i know that ill call you"

3 weeks later...(yesterday)

She calls....i pick up. We small talk for a bit about normal stuff. Then she tells me shes on her way to a guy named jacob...The way she said it though was her begging for me to ask her "whose jacob" but i didnt. So she saw i wasnt gonna ask so she goes "yeah he comes to see me all that time so im gonna go see him tonight"..i pretend to be unaffected and just shrugged it off and talked about other things..then she brings him up again "can you believe he already wants me to fly to meet his mother?Hes paying for it and everything... He must really like me!"
Again i just shrug it off...And say "thats cool"

then I change the subject and such and then she says she has to go and says "later babe"

the general tone of the convo was very..."im trying to make conversation/stuffing u with information about this new guy"

was she just trying to get a reaction out of me? Are things definitly over for good?

So today I log online and I see that she switched her facebook account to a new school, and added all her friends except for me. Not only that but theres a picture of her and the new guy making out. Keep in mind shes known him for less than 3 weeks.

Everyone I've talked to said that she is trying to make me jealous, trying to make me want her back and beg her to come back so she can say no and have the power.

Do you guys think this is true? or is this merely a case of her letting me know that things are definitly over...and then moving on by not even bothering to add me to her new facebook.

I talked to my ex gf..THE ex you guys remember her from about a yea and ahalf ago..well she told me that there was no doubt in her mind this is a GAME. She wants attention and that I should pretend like nothing is wrong, that'll make her come back...and then *I* can chose if i want her back or not.

Another person said that she deleted me from facebook because she didnt get what she wanted from that phone call, she didnt get my drooling for her so shes going to show me she doesn't care about me.
help, long nice posts about this are always nice to read.

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